Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Purity And Virginity

When Is It Too Young To Have Sex? A Girl Or Woman's Virginity Is Like The Most Sacred Thing That You Can Have In Life. Well, I'm Having A Slight Dilema With A Friend Of Mine's Lil Cousin. She's 14, Looks Like She's 21, Been With Her Boyfriend That's 18 For About 3 Months. And She Feels That She's Ready To Be Intimate With Him. And I Was Like WTF? Cuz, I Couldn't Understand Why In The Hell Is She Thinking About Sex At Her Age. We Both Talked To Her And Tried To Talk Her Out Of It. She Swears That She Loves Him, But I Truely Think That She Doesn't Know What The Blazing Hot Fuck Love Is. But, I Understand How She Feels Cuz She Has Friends That Are Older Than Her As Well. And Peer Pressure Is Kicking In. Her Emotions And Hormones Are All Over The Place Also. Two Of Her Friends Have Babies Already. And They Are 14, And 16. Her Relationship With Him Is Ok I Guess. But, The Age Difference Kind Of Concerns Me Though. I Truely Believe That She's In Deep Like When It Comes To Him. Like I Told Her, Once Your Virginty Is Gone There Is No Turning Back. You Are No Longer Pure In God, Or A Man's Eyes. Just Take Your Time. Wear A Purity Ring, Which She Does, Along With A Cross On The Same Chain. See, When I Found Out That She Was A Christian Girl That's When I Knew That She Needed "The Talk" From Us. And She Was Like, Well I'm Worried Cuz It's Goes Against God And My Morals. Plus, I'm Also Young But I Love Him. And I Told Her To Wait Cuz If He's Not Pressuring You. Shit, You Might Have A Good Guy. But, If He Is Pressuring You Fuck Him And Just Focus On Your Studies At School. Niggaz Will Always Be The Fuck Around, Just Waiting On Some Easy Ass To Come Through. Make Sure That You Guys Are On The Same Page Before Anything Pops Off. Shit, It Don't Need To Be Popping Off At Your Age Anyway Truely. And We Laughed About It. But, I Say Wait Til The Time Is Right For You. Make Sure You And The Nigga That You're With Respects You, And That He Can Wait Until You Are Ready. And That's The Most Important Thing At The End Of The Day...

1 comment:

  1. Man when I was that age I wasn't even into sex. I'm 22 about to be 23 in september and I think about sex but I'm no where near ready to have sex yet.

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